"You cannot give what you do not have"

With this idea, we need to not be overwhelmed by it, instead we need to prepare and take time to learn certain qualities that we will need for the future. Yes, in certain peoples lives, they weren't able to fully develop in certain ways and therefore, this might seem hard. For example, if you don't have a positive outlook on life, how would you be able help someone that is on the verge of taking their life? That example is very far fetched and dramatic, but if they aren't happy to be living life, then they more than likely wont be able to share their joys with others. I think that the best way to break this cycle is to get out there and do things that you aren't used to or even super confident in. Jump in and try  it out. The more you are around it, the more likely you will be to develop an understanding as to how you should act or treat people in situations.