Dating Filter System

I think it is interesting that when we talked about this in class that the first filter is physical attraction. For me, I feel like yes, I need to have some kind of interest in his look at first, but most of the guys that I am like "He is attractive!" I don't even go after. Yes, there needs to be some kind of like of their physical demeanor, but not something that causes more of a lust. I feel like the more time you spend with one another, you see the common similarities that you have and those strike some kind of fancy. For me, I am a super reserved person when it comes to a man that I have feelings for or could see him becoming a huge part of my life. Not that I am not open, I am just more aware as to what I share. Like a protective thing. Not saying this is a great way of dealing with dating and getting to know someone, but this is how I am. So, to me I think that conversation is HUGE. If we don't have a common way of speaking to each other, then most of the times it causes misunderstandings and you hit some kind of a way. To either break it down, or turn around and go a different route.