Lesson on Sex

Growing up in my family, there was like a unspoken understanding that sex is bad. This caused a sense of discomfort when ever any sex related thing would come on during a movie or in conversation in public. I think that as future parents we need to prepare ourselves now for what we are comfortable with explaining about bodies and what happens in marriage as far as sex goes. Sex is not a bad thing.When we teach that it is bad, then problems come about. They are ashamed of our bodies and they tend to shut down. Someone in class explained a great way of explaining the sacredness of sex to your children. I call it the piece of tape model. You explain that tape sticks together better for one bond than if they had stuck to others first. It shows how important the act of sex is. It needs to be in the right manner. Once we explain this idea to them, then they won't have to turn to learn this outside the house.